1 How do I see Myself? What do I most like/dislike about myself?
2 How did I do in our last argument? What rules did I follow? Break? Did I trust?
3 In what ways have I been lifegiving to you lately? How does this make me feel?
4 In what ways can I add spark to our sexual relationship?
5 In what way have I feld most support by you? How does this make me feel?
6 Where am I most closed in my life right now and what do I need to do to open up?
7 Is a decision to love just a decision to get back to the romance we have known?
8 How am I making God apart of our lives?
9 What plans are we making to enable our family to grow spritually?
10 When I reflect on what a gift you are to me I feelů.
11 What masks have I recently used with God? My family? Others?
12 I showed you that I loved you this week by.. I knew that you loved me this week when..
13 What about our lives would I like to chage and how do I whish we could be? How does this make me feel?
14 When recently have I put you needs ahead of mine?
15 Over the next two weeks, I pledge to be a better husband/wife byů
16 What quality of mine have I strengthened lately? What weakness is getting me down?
17 What sacrifices am I willing to make for a good relationship with you?
18 How do I see myself living the same as my parents or diffentlyly. How does my answer make me feel?
19 How have we shared our relationship with others this week?
20 Over what issues do I become angry with you?
21 Have I really felt important lately? How do my actions make me feel?
22 What values and traditions do I like in my family and yours? How can we integrate these into our developing family?
23 What does my/your joe mean to me/us? How does this make me feel?
24 How well have I listened to you today and how does it make me feel?
25 What differences do we have in our cultural, social, or economic backgrounds? Do I see these differences interfering with our relationship? How?
26 How do I feel now about our weekend?
27 Are the activities our family is involved in an ideal for me or a value?
28 What does marriage as a vocation now mean to me? How is god calling us to be one?
29 Do I go along with you just to avoid an argument? How does that make me feel?
30 Have I ever used manipulative tactics to get what I wanted? How did my actions make me feel? Have I asked for forgivness?
31 How do I see our life together when I/you/we retire?