1 What quality about myself would I most like to work on in order to enhance our relationship?
2 What is special about us as a couple today and how does this make me feel?
3 Have I recently gone though a cycle (romance disillusionment joy) with my family? How does that make me feel?
4 What am I doing that is lifegiving to us? Life-stifling?
5 How do I feel when we pass up on an opportunity to use the mutual decision-making steps?
6 What do I like least and most about our sexual relationship; what needs of mine are met or unmet and what are my feelings about that?
7 How do I feel about your/our hopes, holiness, highs, lows, hobbies,temper, favorite recreation together, parents, sense of humor, laugh?
8 How does the image I project effect our dialog? How does that make me feel?
9 "You are the light of the world" Hoe do I feel hearing Jesus say this to us?
10 What weakness in me do I need to accept?
11 How do I feel when I think you are reaching out to others more than you do to me?
12 What are my feelings when I have made you happy?
13 What so threatens our relationship that I would rather suffer in silence than risk to be open with you?
14 How do I feel when you are open with me?
15 In what way recently have I been called to make the decision to love?
16 What does it mean to me, to belong to you?
17 Am I satisfied with my career at present? Do I need to make any decisions about it?
18 How do I feel about being married to you every day?
19 How have honesty, openness, intimacy, passion and unity been linked together in a recent incident in either our personal or public life?
20 How do I feel that god made me man (woman)?
21 Footsteps! When was the last time I carried you? How does my actions make me feel?
22 What masks do I want to stop using?
23 What areas do I need to reevaluate to make our marriage better? How do I feel about that?
24 How do I see our strength as a couple, and what are my feelings about that?
25 What are some of the traditions of our summertime that we still share today?
26 In going out two by two, we are a visible sign of God's love. What does this mean to me? How does this make me feel?
27 We have committed ourselves to loving each other for a lifetime? How does that make me feel?
28 How do I see myself as a member of your birth family? How does my actions make me feel?
29 In which steps of the decision making process are we strongest? Weakest?
30 What is one thing that I recently discovered about myself that made me glad to be me?