1 How do I feel about this past work week?
2 When did I last experience some personal growth? How did that make me feel?
3 What step of the 5-step decision making process is easiest for us? Hardest?
4 What specialness of yours gives me the most strength? How does that make me feel?
5 What part of the day do I usually like best?
6 In what ways do I personally reflect the values of my parents family?
7 Do we share from our abundance or from our substance? What decisions have we made about contributions to the church or other charities?
8 What attitudes of mine do I want to change?
9 How do I feel when someone is life-giving to me?
10 In what way can I help confirm our sacrament this/next week week?
11 God needs our couple love? How do I think we should be using it?
12 How can I help the me I know get closer to the me I project?
13 How do I feel about writing to you like this? How do my actions make me feel?
14 What prevents me from accepting your weaknesses, fears or strong feelings?
15 Am I willing to make decisions when we can't reach a mutual decision? How do my actions make me feel?
16 How do I feel when you leave things up to me?
17 How have I recently gone beyond the norm to achieve harmony in our relationship?
18 What quality in you am I most dependent on? How does that make me feel?
19 What struggle has given us the greatest sense of unity?
20 How am I compensating for unmet needs in our relationship? How do I feel about that?
21 What decision to love have I made recently?
22 What is Christmas to me? How does this make me feel?
23 How do I feel about the effort it takes to prepare for Christmas?
24 How do I feel when I am under pressure?
25 How do I feel knowing God loves us all?
26 How do I feel about the way Christmas went for us this year?
27 What is the happiest memory I have of this Christmas?
28 Are the trappings of my life more meaningful than I like to admit? How does this make me feel?
29 What has been the happiest moment of this year?
30 What one thing this year do I need to ask your forgiveness for this year? How will I do better about this next year?
31 What would I like to change in our life next year?