1 What am I feeling when I realize I have hurt you?
2 "The gift you have received, give as a gift." How do I feel about this. And what would I give?
3 How do I feel about The Father calling us to lead others to him?
4 How has my understanding of "morality" changed or grown since our weekend?
5 How do I feel when someone really likes me?
6 When was the last time I was aware of being the sacrament which is the outward sign of God's presence?
7 "Stay away from foolish and ignorant arguments, you know then end up in quarrels." Why is it often the little things that pull us apart? How do I feel sharing with you?
8 How do I feel when I do/don't feel God's presemce, and how does this affect our relationship?
9 How do I feel when we are trying to settle arguments our own way instead of accepting God's healing graces?
10 How do I feel when you are reaching out to others more than you are to me?
11 What subject do I feel difficult to reveal my vulnerability to you? How does this make me feel?
12 How does judging my feelings make me feel?
13 How do I feel when someone I love dies?
14 Have I experienced "risk" or vulnerablility in my efforts to minister to you?
15 In what ways does your non-verbal communication contradict your verbal? How do I feel sharing this with you?
16 We a commited to each other for the rest of our lives How does this make me feel?
17 If I could go back in time with you, what time would I like to revisit? How does this make me feel?
18 If I died today, what one thing would I want to leave behind to let the world know I cared?
19 How do I feel hugging other people?
20 "I have given them the glory You gave Me that they may be one as We are one." How does this make me feel?
21 Am I closed to God in prayer in some ways? Do I believe all prayers are answered?
22 When did we last experence the grace of healing in our relationship?
23 How do I feel when our friends disreguard our vocation? What can we do about it?
24 Do I try to control you or limit you in our relationship? How does this make me feel?
25 What awareness of God have I discovered by listening to you?
26 What do I believe is God's plan for us in our married life?
27 Describe in loving detail, my most recent awareness of my being called by God to be married.
28 Do I proclaim my sexuality as a God given gift?
29 How does striving to live God's plan give life to us as a couple? How do I feel about that?
30 Is my mentality in our relationship one of life-giving openness or frankness? How does this make me feel?
31 How do I feel when you accept me, but I can't accept myself?